Respecting our neighbors

To the editor:
    Once again, I would like to address an issue that I think is important, even though it doesn’t just pertain specifically to me. That is the topic of weight. For those of us with bellies brought on by “middle age spread,” weight is a valid health concern. Most of us are well aware of the problems that excess weight can cause.  These problems include high blood pressure, heart problems, and even diabetes. Therefore, if you are overweight, there is certainly nothing wrong with being somewhat concerned about it. Your health matters!
    However, while concern about health is valid and losing weight is certainly worthwhile, it has also become an obsession that often leads to inappropriately personal remarks. Unkind remarks about overweight people are not uncommon, and not all of them are made by people who “mean well but don’t know any better.” Society has long idolized people who are “pencil thin” and insulted those of us who aren’t. Some people are just plain rude. If you’re thin, that’s wonderful! But, even if you’re not, you’re still one of God’s children.
    That brings me to my next point. For those of us who are Catholic, Lent is just around the corner. As practicing Catholics know, (as well as many who no longer practice “the Faith!”), Lent is a time to grow closer to God.
    Time and time again, I hear people say: “I’m going to try to lose weight!” Well, I have never seen any connection between losing weight and Lent. Lent is a spiritual journey, not a physical one, and God doesn’t love his chubby children any less than he loves his thin ones.
    During Lent, there are more pressing issues than big bellies. How about respecting our neighbors? Think about it, and God bless.