The gift of sending children a consistent message

    Our society is bombarded with messages that encourage our young children to use alcohol. The myth that “it’s a rite of passage” fuels the perception that underage alcohol use is normal. Underage drinking is dangerous and a serious health issue.
    By allowing young children to drink, it causes them to believe that it’s safe and acceptable behavior. Studies also show that parents’ favorable attitudes about drinking have been positively associated with underage drinking. As adults, we have to recognize our strong influence over our children’s decision to use or not use alcohol. Parents are the number one reason children choose to not use alcohol.
    Research shows that if parents communicate with their children, set clear expectations for behavior and pay attention to how their children are using their free time, their children are not as likely to get into trouble with alcohol. Young people who begin drinking before the age of 15 are four times more likely to develop alcohol addiction problems than those who do not drink until age 21.
    When it comes to being a positive role model for our children, it’s important to remember that actions speak louder than words, and the holidays are a perfect time for parents to model responsible alcohol use and talk to their children about the risks associated with drinking alcohol. If you do drink, drink in moderation, appoint a designated driver, and keep track of the alcohol you have on hand in your home.
    In addition to positive parenting, adults can take many steps in their community to protect children from alcohol-related harm. Most children get their alcohol at home or at a friend’s home but they also know which store clerks will sell it to them. Parents can have a lot of influence with the minority of retailers who need to take steps to keep alcohol out of the hands of our children.
    As we leave for a holiday break from school, work, or other daily activities this season, it does not mean that the negative consequences of underage drinking will take a leave of absence. The dangers of underage drinking do not distinguish between a New Year’s Day, Memorial Day, or another holiday celebration. It is important that as we celebrate this holiday season, we continue to give a consistent message that underage drinking is not acceptable and will not be tolerated at any time.
    Community Voices urges you to send a consistent message. While the holidays are present, take advantage of this great opportunity to start and maintain conversation about drinking. Protecting your child from the negative familial, societal, physical, and emotional ramifications of alcohol use is a great gift.
    For more information or tips on talking with your children about alcohol, please call 834-5540 ext. 2019.
    Michelle Plourde Chasse is project manager for Community Voices.