One question our staff at the Central Aroostook Humane Society are often asked when people adopt a cat is: “How long will it take to adjust to their new surroundings and also to other pets in the home?”
We wish we could give a simple answer to that question, but it depends.
Often, adopters want a friendly kitty, one that is “cuddly” and outgoing. In some cases, a newly adopted cat will adjust quite quickly to their new home, but unfortunately, most do not.
In a previous article we wrote about the 3-3-3 rule for dogs. This general rule is very similar for kitties: three days to decompress, three weeks to learn your routine and three months to start to feel at home.
Cats can take a while to trust and be comfortable around new people, animals and surroundings, just like us humans. Depending on their previous life before arriving at the shelter, we sometimes just don’t know their whole story. Their situations are sometimes filled with trauma and sadness. One thing is for sure, when they do make their way to our shelter, they are showered with loving care and kindness.
When you stop and think about it, their whole world has turned upside down. In the first three days of decompressing, cats may feel overwhelmed, scared and unsure of what’s going on. They may not eat or drink. They may hide and/or test boundaries.
It is always good to start them off in a small room and let them adjust for a few days. And don’t be surprised if they hide under a couch or bed, especially if the cat is known to be shy at first.
In the first three weeks of learning your routine, cats start to settle in, feel more comfortable, realize that this could be a forever home and figure out their environment. They let their guard down and show their true personality, and some behavior issues could possibly show up if there are any.
In the first three months, when they start to feel at home, cats finally feel fully comfortable being themselves. They begins building trust and bonding, feel a complete sense of security and settle into routines.
It is never an easy straightforward answer when it comes to animals and people. All we can suggest is to be committed and patient. Remember, don’t give up — it takes time.
Above all, don’t overlook the shy cats that take a moment to open up to you. Be patient.
If you are looking for that one special kitty, stop by the Central Aroostook Humane Society at 210 Cross St., Presque Isle. Hours are Tuesdays from 12 to 4 p.m., and Wednesdays through Saturdays, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., closing for lunch from 12 to 12:30 p.m.
Please be responsible: spay and neuter your pets.
Gloria J. Towle is on the Central Aroostook Humane Society board of directors.
